Hi, First am very sorry for you & for your family.
My name Safa Al-Saki, am sysadmin more than 3 decades (mainly Linux) with a lot of knowledge about networks, software & security.
For your present situation, I think you should delete (totally) your identity on the Internet.
Start new one then I can support you with that.
I have gained many experience in Internet security working for companies around the world.
Firewall, proxies & virtual machines among many others.
Don't lose time, lets do it as soon as possible with 100%.
If you have special requests let me know please.
Thank you & Good Luck...