389810 Wordpress fixes need now

+++++++++++ NUMBER 1 ++++++++++++++++ If you got to: [login to view URL] You will see the top navigation: Home About Catagories I need it to be Home About Categories Links Contact I then need categories to be fixed... If you currently click on categories it goes to a categories page, I don't want it to do that at all. I want it so: You click on categories, the 'hover' stays on and the drop down menu appears, now in the drop down menu, I want to display all the catagories I currently have "medical, cases, etc". WHen they select lets say Medical, they will see all the posts related to medical. Then, on the contact button, I want a very simple but fills out the same width wise with a contact form [Name:] [Email:] [Phone Number:] [How Did You Find Us:] [Message:] I need it sent to my email. I need it to say thanks when its submitted. +++++++++++++++++++++ NUMBER TWO +++++++++++++++++++++ ON the right hand side where it says "CHECK IN WITH US" I need the "links" removed and I want only "Latests Posts" left. ++++++++++++++++++++ NUMBER THREE ++++++++++++++++++++ POPULAR ENTRIES widget, I need the "Popular Posts" removed. So it can all slide up. I need the "comment" and "posts" to be the same color as the 'catagories' links on the right hand side, on hover I want it to be black. I just need that to look better. +++++++++++++++++ NUMBER FOUR +++++++++++++++++++++ I need the Categories widget i need just that word to be capitalized. Just make this site fit in with the bottom. Id like to change the top of each widget with a new graphic: [login to view URL] So it fits in with the bottom, so I will need that done to.